If someone were raping your wife would you hold her down for the assailant?
Your premise is flawed, while a rapist may be a narcissist, a narcissist is not necessarily a rapist.
Your statement is therefore illogical.
Further a rapist is a criminal who is actually doing something in this case a crime. Since all Obama is doing is talking, we have not actually seen the EO yet, we have no idea what if anything Obama is actually doing that may or may not be unconstitutional or illegal.
My point is we are all getting played.