Well it’s obvious this kid needed far more than simply talk sessions from a very early age and went far too long without medication that surely would have helped had the mother not refused such help.
Just one look at his bedroom without even examining the kid would tell anyone he had fully withdrawn into his own world....and the mother knew this all too well.
Everything about this kid was seen as seriously impaired....not something he would grow out as you found.
As I said before
“Lanza was bats**t crazy and I do blame the mom & dad for not doing something (and giving the kid a gun was a really bad idea).”
But if schools only pushed drug on the really crazy kids, maybe people would be more willing to heed the warning. If you push drugs on kids, especially boys, just for being boys, your warning are going to be ignored when they shouldn’t be.