I don’t know what you are, but I’m a guy and it weirds me out every time, male or female. Maybe I’m so old the women don’t think there’s any chance I would misconstrue it.
Yeah, I read it after posting, coulda worded it better, sheesh. I’m a old guy wistfully hoping for a little female misconstruation. Of course, I knew of the invisibility of 30-something men to college girls, back in the 80’s [at least for the most part]. ;)