That’s what happens with Pee Wee football and parents and coaches who are new to the experience. You have all these Dads who played foot ball and want their kids to have the same experience and they can’t understand why nothing is as simple as it was when they were kids.
What has changed is that sports are no longer natural to kids, there are no pick up or neighborhood games, where kids learn to be competitive and work on the fundamentals. The coaches have to do it all. The kids with older brothers have an advantage that often disappears by junior high if the kid can stick it out through grade school.