Still defiantly not reading scripture?
But you desire te be taken as if you were a person to whom scripture mattered.
Parse Genesis chapter 24.
What was God’s plan to provide Isaac with a wife?
We can do this step by step (since you are unwilling or incapable of reading the Bible by yourself) or you can Hoot and Hollar all day while trying to deny both the text in question and the context in which it was given.
Cite the scripture rather than merely going on about it, please. Marking the body is frowned upon and even forbidden in the OT. Maintaining an appearance of propriety in the eyes of your people is admonished in Romans as far as NT, to name a few.
So, have at it. It seems as if this is a topic that carries a great deal of emotional weight for you. I’m sure, then, that you’ll be pleased to provide the scriptural rationale.