If she’s got sexual feelings towards other women that doesn’t mean she has to act on them. We all get thoughts or feelings that if acted upon would be sin in deed but that’s human. I don’t understand why you think that anyone would tell her she can’t attend any church she wants. So what, I felt like punching this lady at work who swears and puts people down all the time, these thoughts or feelings aren’t usually shared with a whole church congregation but even if they were, nobody is going to ostracize someone for it!
She says she is bisexual, so if it is not a sin to be bisexual it is not a sin to be homosexual as long as no sex is practiced? It does not sound like that is what some are saying, are they not saying being a homosexual is sinful even a chaste homosexual and they should not be part of a church?
This women says being gay is not a sin but having sex outside marriage is. What is God saying, when He says homosexuals will not enter into His kingdom? That being a homosexual is sin, rebel against God ......or fornication (sex outside of marriage) is sin?