Why would the two of you blame her? How would she have known he was going to become a homosexual?
Because this is Free Republic, where everything is the woman's fault. I can't help but wonder how some Freepers would respond if this story was about some lesbian who abandoned her husband and took the kids. Would the husband be blamed for "marrying a lesbian"? I think not.
Well what's ridiculous about her argument is that she believes that the problem is that this guy was able to run off and shack up with another guy -- not that she married a gay guy. It would have been better to stay in a sham of a marriage and have them both miserable? Homosexual men shouldn't marry women, and women shouldn't marry homosexual men. That way, everyone is happy.