“Is it okay if the parents decide to sleep with the kids too?”
Whew, that escalated quickly! The counter is to ask you if the parents have any say so on anything, or should the government do everything? Obviously, the answer is somewhere in between, and this sort of all or nothing reasoning is silly.
I am responding to the complaint that we are “pushing our morality” on people by opposing drugs, I am simply trying to determine when it is okay to “push morality” on people in their minds.