Sure uncontrolled rage and anger directed at a child is a bad way to discipline. If voice commands and time outs work to apply discipline for correction then great however don’t you think there are times when a measured administering of a butt smacking is necessary especially for unruly young male children? A little pain for greater gain.
Why not unruly young female children? If you want to intervene in a way that doesn’t work, then go ahead and spank. Have you ever seen a happy parent spank?
Spanking is a result of parental failure at self-control and parental frustration.