Lee, I don’t think it’s great. How can it be when the children will be deprived of having a father?
The 2 year-old is female. Girls need fathers, or they grow up with no idea of what a good man is, or what to accept as appropriate (or not) from the men in their lives.
This woman will probably have a queer friend masquerade as “uncle” and call it a male influence.
All kids of both sexes need a sane,decent mother and a sane,decent father.Yes,it's true that one of the important things a girl learns from her father is how men are supposed to treat people,females in particular.If the father is good to her and her mother she'll learn to settle for nothing less from her future husband.