I’m 53 and have been divorced for about 10 years. In that time I have dated a couple of younger women. 2 much younger,and my current fiancee is 43. Anyway. If you are older and “know enough” and you want to do some of the depraved things that most folks can only imagine, then I say “go ahead, it’s none of my business.” When I see and hear what doing these things do to a young persons mind and health then it is society that needs to take responsibility. Say what you want but a 14 y.o. cannot understand or can’t even grasp that what they are doing can affect them for the rest of their lives. After all “it’s only sex”.
Well... the young women do not realize that even if “nothing happens” does not mean that there was not evidence of malice irresponsibility in the other party who never would care for anyone or how the grapes they eat were grown.
Psychology loops around that way. That very hidden heinous thought while having sex is what affects them to accept it or confuse them at best.
In fact, a potential girlfriend of mine got enraged when I told her there was a difference between of appreciation between the drunk who breaks the bottles in the cellar and the monks tending and making and tasting the wine.
At the time I had no idea why she was so enraged by me suggesting a monk like contract of relationship that was caring. No, to her the hero was the drunk, the one to humanely forgive. The monk model was condemned and burned at the stake. She had prior admited to me that she was dating a 25 year old when she was 13 or 14 in South America. She then said she broke up with him and he was jealous... but he was the one neglecting and pushing her away obviously and wanted this to happen.
The pimp calculates that curse.