“Apparently a lot of women need better taste.”
You didn’t stop to ask yourself why such a trend might have come about, or why it might be perpetuated. Sometimes there are very good reasons behind the existence of very bad things.
Human beings function with, among other things, basic constraints based on our biology. Aside from the fact that men and women are different, men and women also face different reproductive pressures and incentives. The same mating strategy that would work for a male would be disastrous for a female.
Look back on the last few thousand years of written history, and extrapolate those trends back through tens of thousands of years of pre-history. What happens to weak, effeminate men that build weak, effeminate societies? They’re eventually wiped out by stronger neighbors, yes? What do you think has happened to the women and families of weak, effeminate men?
Do you think tens of thousands of years of social, political, military and economic pressures have created an “incentive” for women to mate with beta males? Quite the opposite, there’s a very real emotional drive for a woman to choose a man capable of protecting her, providing for her, and ensuring that her offspring have all the safety and opportunity necessary to succeed. Frankly, “nice” isn’t a synonym for strong protector, provider, and when necessary dirty fighter and conniving procurer of all things necessary. More often “nice” is a synonym for “potential victim”.
It’s the most natural thing in the world for women to be sexually repulsed by meek, helpless men. It’s less potentially disastrous for a woman to mate with a capable ***hole than it is to hitch her genetic wagon to a girly boy that couldn’t possibly summon up the required courage and rage to kill when necessary. The world is not a nice, happy place — and nice, happy people tend to end up on the dinner menu.
Understand first that men and women are different. They have different needs, different emotional responses, different drives. Understand what makes women tick, what drives their most ancestral and primal emotional urges, and work with biology rather than against it. You’ll be happier, and your woman will be happier, if you understand that men should be men and women should be women.
My advice to young men would be to first, be men. Be unrepentant, self-confident, capable, assertive men. Your job in this life is not to be a girlfriend, your reason for existing is not to be a maid, your purpose is not to be what every nitwit feminist and halfwit talk show host “says” women want. Be hard. Be men.
My advice to young women would be to understand the difference between an ***hole and a capable, responsible, unrepentant man. There are a few men out there in the world that have what it takes to face any challenge, win when all the chips are on the table, to stare down or beat down any attacker, or at least pick their bloody selves up off the ground and give as good as they got, and still have the basic moral fiber to stand by a faithful woman and provide for as well as protect his home and family at all costs. Better an ***hole than a doormat, but best to have a protector rather than an ***hole. In the end, I’d advise a young woman to be feminine, and encourage her other half to be masculine; you’ll both be happier, more efficient, more capable people as a result.
Understand what you are saying. There is a saying that a “bad-a$$” makes a girl’s heart beat faster. Fine. The only problem is when the bad-a$$ is the guy who can barely provide for her (maybe not even that) and is most likely to abuse or leave her. Meanwhile, the “nice” guy is not necessarily a victim. In many cases, he is the guy with a bank account, a good job and a future. As we know, it’s often the “nerd” who has the last laugh.
You are exactly right, you may be a genius. As one unrepentant man to another, I salute you.