HIV is proven as cause of AIDS, just because a couple of lunatics on the internet spout conspiracy theories, does not mean there is a valid debate on the subject. There was some HIV+ woman awhile back who did not believe the virus caused AIDS, so she did not take anti-retrovirals and had two kids, breastfeeding them for years. Naturally both developed AIDS.
Anyone who doubts the connection between HIV and AIDS should infect himself with HIV and not take retrovirals thus showing everyone he/she is right. This chart of virus particles vs immune cells has been around for years and tells the whole story.
The good news is that medical science has developed effective ways to keep the disease under control, with the newest retroviral therapy, it is better to have HIV than to have type 2 diabetes in terms of long term prognosis.
Anecdotal evidence is not proof. Nor is correlation.
If you have the evidence point me to it.