I do not remember everything about that time. But, I do remember receiving a call to get there to say “good-bye”. This was at the 2nd hospital, before the VA. I rushed there and ran into ICU. The nurse had no idea why the doctor had told me that. I signed a form that day stating he was never to be in his room again.
I still will not sign a DNR and neither will my husband.
Thank you, we are doing well and intend to for many years. The VA really does take great care of him.
DNR's are ORDERS to Do Not Resuscitate...PERIOD. Has nothing to do with normal care, antibiotics, fluids, food, care, surgery, tests, etc..etc...
I'm sorry you have been misinformed...but I understand it.