No argument from me that traditional mother and father is best. My wife and I have 3 kids. Could we have more? Times are tight and it would be tough. Plus we’re both in our 40s. Could we adopt? Maybe, but again, it would be tough. But would I ever adopt a downs or other special needs baby? No. That’s the plain truth. Does it make me a bad person? Debatable I guess. I wish all kids could be brought up in the stable m and d ideal. Sadly, just ain’t reality.
I understaand what you’re saing. God bless you and yhour family many times over.