I can generally understand the fear of being shot. However, when I imagine myself in such situation (which wouldn’t happen because I’ll pull my weapon and demand that the driver let me the hell out), I think it would be fairly easy to indicate to the officer pounding on my window that I needed help and wanted to get out.
JMHO.
You ever seen how cops are during a high speed chase? I seriously doubt that there were any cops there that were calm enough to be able to see that she was afraid and wanted to get out. Most cops are so hyped up and angry that you ran that your a$$ is going to get kicked whether you're guilty or not.