I have a COLB. I had to order one a few years ago.
I do not have a marriage certificate. Will have to get one.
The SS card is another matter. I am 60. I haven't seen it in 35 years. I do remember it said something about not to be used for ID. The pisser is I never had my name changed after I got married.
I do have documents with my SSN on it which has always been accepted as proof whenever it was needed....until now.
I guess I will need to get the ball rolling when I am 62. Maybe I can get all the paper work together to prove I am who I have said I am for the last 60 years. :(
North Carolina accepted a tax return as a substitute for the Social Security card. My SS card is no good because my mother had it laminated (even though it says not to, right on it) back when it was issued in 1976.