I still use the term fag. It too had a double meaning, but now it mostly just means fag.
I prefer the term “faggie” when referring to homosexuals. All disrespect is intended.
OBTW, if they’re `born that way because who would choose this lifestyle’ then faggies are in quite a conundrum. If there were proven to be a “gay gene” that could be detected through amniocentesis, then such prenatal procedures would simply have to be outlawed, in the name of political correctness.