The title says it all
Its not a tragedy when bad things happen to people who make bad choices. Its a tragedy when we lie to them by validating their failures and then try to ameliorate those consequences by taking money from people who did all the right things.although
You shouldnt have kids if you cant afford them. A corollary to this self-evident concept is that you shouldnt have sex unless you can pay for your own birth control. Those of us who dont choose to live lives of chaos should not have to be taxed money from our kids so the government can give it to your kids because you are too lazy, stupid and/or drug-addled to support them yourself.is also priceless.