Getting out of Red England would be a BIG help...wife has insulin resistance syndrome (type-2 diabetes), so the additional stress hasn't done her any favors.
I'm sure many of us never considered the stress that results from low-flying jets in your situation. To my shame, I never did.
You’re in England? Or am I reading that wrong? If you are, I’m afraid there’s not many places much better. The USA is failing as we speak. And it’s so hard to leave one country for another. Good luck to you and your wife. I’m still in touch with my friend who was swatted and he is still in the process of recovery - but he has other problems (such as financial) that, I believe, retards his improvement.