[virgil283]

Thanks for posting, again TS hits out of the park.

...superiority complex, insecurity and impulse control.

My brother worked as an volunteer in a state prison and these were the traits that defeated these men again and again, the inability of self control and an attitude of I can't do it...

[lepton]

Impulse control is one of those things strongly tied to having a man in the family when the child is raised.