Just tell them no, no matter how many you may have. F them.
I have absolutely NO problem saying “It’s none of your business what I have or don’t have, in the privacy of my home.”
Docs may be required to ask, but I’m NOT required to answer.
Secondly, though my children are grown now, I NEVER allowed a doctor to be alone in the room with my children, PERIOD.
Thirdly, I also have NO problem firing a doctor, a plumber, a nurse, a cabinet hanger, housekeeper or any other person whom *I* hire, and pay, to work for ME.
If people are foolish enough to pay hundreds of thousands of dollars, blood, sweat and tears to become doctors, and they allow government to walk on them like that, then they really don’t belong in medicine.