I am authorized to perform civil weddings in Indiana. If Indiana law ever recognizes same-sex “marriages” I will probably legally be under a duty to perform the ceremony. But there is no statutory set “dialog” for performing the ceremony. My ceremony may start with “OK, which one of you is the pitcher and which one is the catcher?”
And it will probably go downhill from there.
I may be obligated to perform a wedding. Nobody said it had to be a good one.
LOL!
How about starting the ceremony by a statement of support for traditional marriage? I think it would be interesting if a gay couple went into a Christian-owned bakery and the owner sat them down and explained all the reasons why s/he object to their wedding. And then at the end of it agree to make the cake. At that point, I seriously doubt the gay couple would want to go forward.