Bryan’s parents brought him to California when he was three.
He got an American education through college (UCLA), and fresh out of college, he started working. I trained him on his first technical job, and we worked together for years.
We got married when he was 28 and I was 32. We continued to work together for many years until he asked me to quit and keep house about 17 years ago.
He got tired of not being able to vote and became a citizen six years ago, finally.
And we do not cancel out each others votes.