I have no idea where your finger is but it is definitely nowhere near my ear lol.
You’re losing the debate because you don’t acknowledge the tendency very plain to most that men generally have softened. Its allowed the feminists to grab the reins and is destroying the family.
How am I losing the debate when you just admitted feminists have grabbed the reins?
How were men supposed to keep the reins when a woman's vote counts for just as much as a man's, and there are more women than men?
It's easy to throw stones at the people who can't do anything about a problem. So you tell me how some hardnose guy convinces a woman to choose something he wants her to do instead of what she wants to do.