I'm avoiding nothing. The "how" is providing leadership...aka good direction. Men are leading in the wrong direction...if they are leading at all. (There are still good men obviously who recognize and practice good leadership but the trend is the wrong one.)
Men are becoming more feminized, not less. This is because they are not choosing to lead. A leader whom people will follow has a beneficial direction in mind for followers. Porn and gay rights is not the right direction and this is what is taking place...this is not the fault of women. Men are choosing this themselves.
The feminization of men will never lead to good leaders. Woman will not submit to bad leadership.
I’m not going to bother “playing army” with the kid who shouts “YOU MISSED” when I’ve got my finger in his ear.