they can think it, but the minute one of them acts on it, he needs his life ruined, just like he ruined the life of that innocent child
Agreed. Ruined, or preferably ended.
BTW, I reject the idea that every child who it molested or woman who is raped has his/her life totally destroyed as a result. I refuse to accept that people are incapable of bouncing back from even the most horrific abuse. See the young girl in Salt Lake who appears to have recovered well.
Which does not mitigate the crime in any way.