It is not lack of empathy. The young woman was UNDER the age of 21 and shouldn’t have been drinking in the first place. You want me to empathetic with that??? Okay let’s be empathetic with millions of Mexicans and just let them all in.
IF she decides to become a sober member of society she will be a living example that others perhaps will relate to. From my perspective this young woman is really no better than the 16 yr old drunk driver who killed four people. Maybe you can muster some empathy for him.