“You could look it up:”
You’re an idiot if you think reading about it somehow overrides living it. I bet you think you could know what it’s like to have a baby by reading about it versus having one.
I am not an idiot because I don't believe that. But you can learn a lot by reading. It is valuable. Do you dispute any of what you've read from the links I provided to you?
You are aware that you shared anecdotal evidence, correct? You are also aware that your shared "facts" suffer from selection bias, no?