You really should move. It’s come to that.
Believe me when I say "I know." I've had offers to move out of state that I've really wanted to take, however my charming and delightful wife really wants to wait until our kids are out of high school.
I can understand her point. I moved (twice!) when I was in high school and it was incredibly disruptive academically as well as socially which is really important with two teenage sons.....