Yes, it’s very hard to find people willing to attack Iran, especially in DC these days. Many of those I used to think of as being willing turned out to be quite the opposite.
As for Obama, he’s been dead against the US “war hawks” that might have been willing to neutralize Iran. It’ll certainly take a big blow to his ego to get him to change that tack; I don’t know if attacks by Hezbollah, or missile strikes on the US, would move him to act.
Yep, there are some. Then there is Israel. And then there is Saudi Arabia. To name only a few.
You view 0bama to be a narcissist like Bill Clinton. I view him to be a pathological narcissist. The difference between the two is of an order of magnitude greater than the difference between a Trappist monk and Bill Clinton.