Hell, a lot of women just see marriage as an investment plan nowadays. Find a dupe with a job, put in a few years with him to keep up appearances, pop out a kid or two, and then you have a nice financial nest egg. Then they can go and look for their “true love”, now that they have that out of the way.
Interesting... My experience through watching others is that she finds the “bad Boy” who excites her and titillates her ego. Pops out a couple of kids and then goes looking for a well-paid man, (Geek), to pay for the kids and her until they are grown.
If he’s lucky he might gets ‘some’ once or month or so.
But everyone is ‘different’ your experiences are probably quite different from what I’ve witnessed.
True, it can work either way. They can get the payday up front, or they can go for the annuity plan.