[cherry]

I’ve just never loved the kumbaya church and its milk toast music, its hand slapping and signs of peace in church....

[boatbums]

I’ve just never loved the kumbaya church and its milk toast music, its hand slapping and signs of peace in church....

You mean music like:

I stand, I stand in awe of you.
I stand, I stand in awe of you.
Holy God to whom all praise is due,
I stand in awe of you.

Is this the "milquetoast" music of which you speak? To each his own, I guess.