Maybe the family should quote Davy Crockett.
You may go to Hell, and we’re going th Texas.
I think the quote is actually, “I’m going to Texas, and you can go to Hell,” though I may have confused the wording with a quote from Sen. Stephen Douglass to the Abolitionists in Chicago (with whom he had been discussing the issue of slavery since early Saturday evening) “Gentlemen, it is now Sunday morning: I’m going to Church, and you can go to Hell.” Good Christian sentiment there.