There is still such a thing a forgiveness. I am a native Arizonan. I can forgive a former enemy. And I can withstand the criticism of those who cannot forgive.
The dichotomy between you post and tag line I find amusing, minimally.
Fine, forgive them. No way should they be honored with the very people- sailors— they killed. No way at all- that is noones purview except the japs.. and they can build their own memorial somewhere else and pay for it, too.