Bzzzt. Wrong again. I think a persons sexuality should be kept to himself and his partners so theoretically a homo could be in the military, except no one would ever know. As far as marriage, I also think that the Fedgov should bug out, but since they don’t, marriage is between one biological male and one biological female.
You make a lot of incorrect assumptions. You should re-examine your methods of supposition.
It is you who is confused, and confusing.
You want everyone to so hide their sexuality that no one knows what they are? How does that work in the military for instance? Where do you hide your wife and kids, what happens on when the ship hits port?
So far you haven’t said anything, merely expressed some childish avoidance.