So your (very attractive) secretary said no. And the guy left.
So we’re talking about an exchange that took maybe 90 seconds—but more like about 30 seconds.
The exchange was one your (very attractive) secretary was likely well familiar with—though not from that guy. Likely too she has parried many lame advances just like that one. Parrying lame advances goes with the job of being (very attractive)
From your description of the incident, she was just trying to flatter you. Your post was just a brag.
Which is ok.
But somehow, I felt sorry for the guy.
Maybe I’m just too protective of my staff, but I don’t think my employees should have to put up with that. I’m frankly puzzled how that came across as a brag...