[llevrok]

I know three men who I believe were nice men and caring husbands whose wives had affairs on them

In my world, you give me a hot foot, I burn down your house.

[Gen.Blather]

“In my world, you give me a hot foot, I burn down your house.”

None of these guys were vengeful. And, when you have kids and you’re the sole provider, you can’t end up in jail. I suspect revenge wouldn’t have done anything to salve their wounds. (All of them eventually ended up with better women.)