I came across a very interesting article in another thread on this, that brings a number of related things into sharper focus.
Race, Values, the O.J. Verdict, and Right-To-Carry, or
A Statistician Explains a Conundrum
http://web.archive.org/web/20070706054607/http://www.john-ross.net/race&rtc.htm
It does not leave me with much hope for rapprochement with the larger Black community.