I didn't feel the need to summarize the long version of the story. I'm glad that you and the several others who have commented feel so inclined to pass judgement on the limited information that I offered in order to demonstrate a point. Look down your nose all you wish, and stand in judgment as your have appointed yourself the authority to do so. I sleep with a clean conscience and have a lifelong friend who not only understands, but apologizes for the occurrence. I don't need your approval.
And if all humanity agreed with you... wouldn’t what God wants trump all? God says you don’t forgive your enemy... let alone your friend... He won’t forgive you. Grace must be shared to be had. It’s the original copyleft.
“Sleep well.” But wake up before you die.
You left out where I said that it’s your company & your rules, but whatever. Don’t know why you would be surprised at our reaction out here. Seems most people find your behavior unbecoming....to say the last.