How is condemning criminal behavior "judging people?" We do not indulge in situational ethics here on FR. The victim in this case could not legally give consent. Assuming all facts are as stated it is legal and right to charge the adult woman as a sexual predator.
May I assume that in your mind nothing untoward happened here? Just a case of pent-up meanies out to punish kids for being kids, eh?
We are constantly indulging in situational ethics here, it’s one of the things that draw people here.
No, you may not assume that.