As to the middle school boy scenario, do you think if 11 year olds are ‘playing Doctor’ it should always be the boy who is prosecuted, and should be a lifetime ‘sex offender’?
How about an 11 year old girl with a 7 year old boy, should the girl be prosecuted? Do you think that would be likely?
Yes, I would have a HUGE problem if an 11 year old girl had had sexual contact with my 7 year old son.