Do like we do and use sites where you can meet the person you want to exchange with in-person when possible, and deal direct, and avoid all the delivery middle man BS.
Or just stop buying so much crap. We reached a point long ago where if we don't absolutely needed it, we don't buy it and start fixing what ya already have, yourself. Etc., etc.
We buy nothing we don’t absolutely need. Well except good red wine. :)