IIRC, the Catholic Church just went through a crapstorm, with disastrous costs, for allowing gay priests around children. Now you want this school to make an emotion-based exception to the rule for a gay woman, and involve the civil government into the mess, potentially having a secular court overrule the Church where it tries to limit the expression of gay behavior among its faculty?
Whose side are you on? She flouted the "don't tell" rule.
You like her personally; so send her a bouquet; find her another job; but leave your Church to do what it has to do. Unless, of course, like her, you don't believe the Church has a right to its own values, and the secular Marxist courts should be able to make an evil precedent out of this case.
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exactly right