I hear ya. We stopped by Bent's Old Fort in Southern CO one year and the tour guide told us that if you were out on the trail or wherever and showing your ass and getting on people's nerves, you were a goner. I don't guess I would like to go back to those days, but we've gone too far in the other direction where too much is tolerated.
In the old sailing ship days, sailors who couldn’t get along tended to just disappear one dark night. Very mysterious.