“We” are not losing any votes, goats or totes. Vote your moral compass. Do the next right thing, no matter what. Live without fear. Ya know, false evidence appearing real. Fear. Live by doing the next right thing, no matter what.
Assuming you are anti-gay marriage, then yes you are part of the “we” and “we” are getting our clocks cleaned. We’re losing elections, public opinion and (soon enough) SCOTUS decisions. Quite frankly, I don’t think those in favor of traditional marriage have made a good argument to most Americans. O’Reilly is a windbag, but he’s right... you can’t simply quote Bible verses and expect to win in 2013 America.