[HerrBlucher]

Very often people are, deep down, afraid to get better.
They are as addicted to self pity as they are to alcohol or drugs.

[Vince Ferrer]

Very often people are, deep down, afraid to get better. They are as addicted to self pity as they are to alcohol or drugs.

And the pity of others. I have been living a situation like this for 7+ years. What is really hard to finally accept is that you can't make someone else change, they have to choose to do it.