Letting society determine that. What a misguided way to live. Society WILL, in the absence of absolute morals, devolve and in the end self-destruct. It has been demonstrated over and over in history.
We, as a nation (and society), have turned away from God, turned away from what He has said is good and right. We are now busy embracing all that has been called wrong or bad by God. I hope you find comfort for yourself in this coming destruction, because you are party to it, enabling it.
Nature (and power) abhor a vacuum. In the absence of God (who we have pushed away and turned away from), the Devil, or Satan will come to fill that moral void. And while God will leave when told (He is a gentleman, after all) the Devil will not. The payday is coming for this, for society has chosen who to follow.
My position, my view, is that following God will bring blessings beyond reckoning. However, refusing God and following the Devil, well, it will bring calamity and destruction beyond the wildest nightmare.
Society does determine these things. That’s how I believe God designed us. I believe we all follow God, He just gives us different paths, some which people have a hard time understanding.
I’ll apologize now for the upcoming destruction in case I don’t get a chance to later...sorry