I was at a dinner party about nine or ten years ago with other adults (no one under 30) and drank ONE glass of wine which made me need to go and collapse on a bed. There were only about ten people there (all co-workers of a girlfriend of mine, who I was with) and this was certainly no sex/drug/rock and roll get together. . .seriously, a dinner party with men AND women (equally mixed). I am a regular drinker, and certainly have NEVER had that sort of reaction from alcohol (regular drinker, not excessive drinker). Thank god my girlfriend was keeping an eye on the door of the bedroom I was passed out in because one of the guys came into the room and began kissing me when she came in behind him.
We immediately left and got into a cab, and she had to get my HUSBAND (who was home watching the kids) to get me out of the taxi and bring me into the house. I called a doctor friend the next morning who was emphatic that it was the date-rape drug, but because it passes through your system so quickly, there would be no way to prove it.
I certainly didn’t flirt with any of the guys or in other ways suggest I was interested, and boy (!) was it hard to explain to my husband. (Which really sucked since I was a certainly an unwilling participant).
A teenager who didn’t have experience drinking could ABSOLUTELY be completely unconscious while being raped if she had been given whatever I was given. There is no doubt in my mind that the one glass of wine I drank was dosed with something.
I followed some links here on FR earlier to day and was shocked to find a lot of information that has not been in the mainstream media.
The facebook, IM and email messages of the kids at the high school are posted on those links.
Apparently the girl broke up with one of the boys a couple of months earlier. The boy was furious and said he was going to get revenge on the “bitch”. For over a month they plotted to get her to go to a party. One of the boys’ girlfriends got her to go to this party and apparently slipped her a date rape drug. She was totally sober but shortly after was unconscious.
Hopefully the real story will come out. The verbatim transcripts of the email messages are chilling.
BTW the boy she broke up with, his family has a lot of money. They got the charges dropped. I guess it’s the poor kids who are being charged.
Terrible story and thanks for sharing it. I’ve been studying this kind of wicked behavior and there is a nexus - pornography.
I fear this is only going to increase as porn moves out of the shadows and into the mainstream. They say that most teen boys today have formed their opinion of women and sex from watching hundreds of porns. When their first sex act isn’t like a porno they’re turned off. Creepy and scary for our society as a whole.