The state doesn’t define marriage in America or anywhere else. Unless you think state recognition of ‘gay marriage’ makes ‘gay marriage’ or any other impossibility possible. But I doubt you do. I hope not.
Freegards
Yes, government law defines marriage in America, not your Mosque.
You seem to want to have a theological discussion, not a discussion of the definition of marriage in the United States.
We get it, you go to a Mosque, or a church or whatever, telling us that over and over, in post after post, doesn’t have anything to do with marriage law in America.
You don’t want gay marriage in America, you just don’t want to do anything about it, except the contradictory solution of allowing gay churches to define marriage.
Now go back to telling us that you go to a church, blah, blah, blah, we get it, you go to a particular church, but churches don’t make marriage law in America.